Lawyers, Guns and Money's Charli Carpenter has
written about how she'd like to escape Facebook but can't on the grounds that she'd risk being terribly isolated if she left, and if there was to be a mass exodus to another platform there'd need to be something worthwhile to escape to.
A lot of us can’t just decide to “leave” without having somewhere to go. That’s because Facebook has become not just an extension of our offline networks, but to some extent, a space in which our virtual identities live – our most important semi-imagined community. The decision to leave such sites is usually agonizing and isolating, because we are deeply committed to what Facebook has to offer, even as many of us abhor on principle what Facebook is becoming. [. . .]
In short, Facebook is like a beloved national homeland poisoned by a corrupt and unyielding government. As in real life, a few people like Dan will respond to such a situation by ritual suicide. Others will choose to exercise voice and or soldier on with resigned loyalty to life under the boot. But in real life, a significant number of people choose to defect, to flee. That’s different from just “deleting” yourself. And to do that, you have to have somewhere to go.
Plenty of us would choose such an exile from the dictatorship of Facebook were there a welcoming neighbor nearby to which we could escape with our friends and families. The latter is crucial: since the “space” of social networking sites is constituted both by the platform and by one’s social network, we need a way to convince people in our Facebook networks to join us in exodus. That requires a social networking utility as cool and functional as Facebook, with none of its privacy-violating nonsense. Not just any country, but a country where we and our friends would actually want to go.
Someone I follow on Twitter
linked to a social networking project, Diaspora, that is supposed to be a secure social networking system. I rather like the idea of that, and might even sign up for that, but I would likely use it as one social networking network among many, a way to catch up with people who would have joined in an exodus there. I am just too embedded in my existing social networking--Livejournal, Facebook, Twitter, Blogspot and Wordpress I suppose--to be able to tolerate abandoning them altogether. Facebook started off as an indie project, and grew enormously, but that is because it happened to fill a largely unexploited niche, perhaps because of its concentration in a fairly diverse and geographically dispersed crowd of students. I can see limited exoduses, sure, but I think that we are all trapped in a flawed network.